Choose your consequence

will you be poor but happy? Rich but sad? Comfortable but not see your husband? Blissfully happy but childless? No to all the above. I want a husband whose eyes light up when they see me, who is working in purpose, honest and true, makes good money, is physically attractive to me, tall, funny, devoted, loyal, loving, passionate and intentional. marries me in a year and I feel like I’m settling for nothing. A win on all fronts, and unequivocal, unparalleled victory. My consequence? Life is an adventure. I may have to move all around the world, raise my children knowing no one but him. (Not his family, we’ll strike out on our own) we’ll make good money living a life of comfort, and purpose, but where his wild head goes I don’t know. But it always comes back to me. He’ll never cheat on me, lie or make me feel insecure, because I am the single best thing to happen to him.

May not get anything on the in-laws front, but the man they raised… I will be forever grateful for. He chooses me, and the family we create together, over everything else. That is my consequence. I want to be so deeply in love that when death parts us… I will be beyond devastated. The price of love is grief, and I will pay that price.

Grace and courage.

Annetta Mother Smith